The only way out of an abusive relationship, is to leave, to say NO!
We are all in a punishment /reward relationship with our governments, every country to some degree, but in North America, this is exactly the relationship we have with our government. As long as we take the bribes (gst cheques, rebates, baby bonus, tax cuts, etc.) we will be in this relationship, always on the losing side of the agreement.
Each time we take one of the bribes, we are giving permission to our government to keep on taking advantage of our situation. We are taking the reward for the punishment they met out. Every time we say yes to the rebate cheque or the compensation cheque (as we lose our livelihoods) we are agreeing to the conditions of the agreement allowing them to hurt us again. The only way out is to stop feeding them, stop giving them the power to control us by giving them what they need to do so.
Last year they first punished everyone by shutting the country (mostly) down, forcing businesses to close and people to stay home, stay safe – as they ramped up the fear! Then they offered the reward in the form of compensation cheques to help us survive as they slowly started destroying small business. Big box stores were never required to shut down, just the small local shops/restaurants, which are the least threatening in this scenario. How many people gather in small stores as compared to Walmart? Who would ensure the bigger threat to safety?
The cycle had begun and can go on indefinitely, because that is how a punishment / reward relationship works. As long as you are afraid to walk away, you will be in the cycle of dependancy forever. This is not a criticism or judgement – I spent most of my life in such a relationship. It is only recently I have found the courage to stand against this oppressive way of life. I am free……are you?
As long as you are accepting the rewards, you are not free.
Last year, after sending out all those cheques, they once more punished us, by applying even greater restrictions. Just before Christmas, the fear mongering was hyped up, “the virus was spreading too fast, so many were dying. But it’s ok, the vaccines are coming, they will be here in the new year, so you can be assured of your safety, just do this for a few months and then we can get back to normal”. So the masks were mandated, mass testing was done unnecessarily, probably causing the spread, as they tightened the noose around the festive season. Families not allowed to visit, friends not allowed to get together, restaurants restricted to the bare minimum, further debilitating them. Travelling across the border by vehicle prohibited, but ok if you flew. How crazy is that?
An example of the stupidity:
You could go to the city, let’s say Saskatoon as it is probable in our area. So you could take your family to visit the grandparents, aunts and uncles in Saskatoon, but could not stay in their homes. You had to stay in a hotel…….unbelievable!
You could not eat at their homes either, but could meet in a restaurant as long as there weren’t too many of you. Only 4 at a table, no big groups allowed! Again unbelievable!
So they permitted us to go to the city to visit family, if we exposed ourselves to the greatest number of unknown people possible in this scenario. If anyone in this example had brought the virus with them, would they not have passed it on in the restaurant as well as their parents home? Can you think of a situation more ridiculous if you are trying to stop the spread of a virus? Yet people complied, they obeyed, crazy as it sounds. Why? Because they didn’t want to be given a outrageous fine if they didn’t!
Yup you got a fine by being in a safer situation than the one they recommended!
It was the same for travelling to the US, which many locals do for the winter. We have a lot of Snow Birds living in the area. They travel by car to their time share homes in certain states to enjoy the warmer climate. Driving was not permitted last year however, one had to fly and rent a car ensuring you would be in contact with as many unknown persons as possible.
None of this made sense, yet this was our punishment because we accepted the reward months previously. Did the rewards come close to repairing the damage done over the previous months in lockdown? No, a band aide over a gunshot wound. We were now fully engaged in the cycle of punishment / reward. See how easy it happens! No judgement, not a criticism.
People waited with baited breath for the vaccine to arrive, eagerly lining up to get that first shot which would save their lives and get things back to normal! They became angry at those of us who refuse to get those nasty little shots, the blame throwers came out. By now some of us are beginning to look for a way to leave this abusive relationship, seeing the trap, but the road is going to be very difficult. We can see the writing on the wall, but carry on as if things will get back to normal if we just get enough people to say no. We become divided, it’s set up in a way to ensure it becomes a black and white fight, no grey area for peaceful negotiations.
The reward came after many long months of suffering with the mask mandate, the fearful people ready to attack those who did not get the shots. It is all our fault things are still not back to normal. The energy was heavy, the days spent working in the public difficult for many of us. Then came the day the mask mandate was lifted, things could open back up as if nothing was wrong. But this reward came with dire warnings, so we knew it was temporary and about to get worse. It was summer, the heat oppressive for many weeks in our area. The earth was punishing us too, or so it seemed. Crops failed, small ranches would have to sell down, maybe give up altogether because of the severe drought conditions. Fires were rampant in some areas, further destroying livelihoods, while others suffered heavy rain. But for a few short months we felt the small reward of being able to breathe!
The punishment came sooner than some of us expected. Summer not yet finished, the mask mandate back and the restrictions in place once more, although to a lesser degree. But then they hit us extra hard!! Perfectly healthy people no longer able to work if they don’t get the shots. You can’t get your drivers licence renewed if you don’t get the shots. You can’t go into restaurants, sports arenas, theatres or shop in many stores if you don’t get the shots. The pressure keeps building as many, like me are faced with this ultimatum.
I chose to take my chances with one less job. So far so good. Those with families have a much tougher time under this kind of pressure, but thousands, like me have and will give up their jobs rather than be forced to comply with something they have no right to force upon us. I am free…….are you?
The booster shot is already rolling out. Your passport invalid in the near future if you don’t keep getting those boosters. Here’s the crazy part of this whole agenda:
If you’ve only had one shot, you are classified as “unvaccinated”
If you’ve had 2 shots, but it’s been 4 months since you got it, you are classified as “unvaccinated”
If you only got the shot 2-3 weeks ago, you are classified as “unvaccinated”
So do you think maybe, those hospital beds which are full of “unvaccinated” people, could be broke down a bit better for us. We would like to know how many are actually shot free, then we can recalibrate the statistics more accurately.
So now the biggest question:
If you’ve had any or all of the shots, you can still get the virus, you can still spread the virus. So why are the injected people allowed to live unrestricted lives?
ANSWER: IT IS NOT about controlling the spread of a virus. IT IS about controlling how we think!
Punishment / reward! As we end this year, about to begin 2022, I ask you, is this the kind of relationship you wish to spend the rest of your life in?
The only way out is to stop accepting the bribes (rewards)! It’s not an easy road. I know because I am on that road with all its challenges. But for me it is the right road. I will not allow anyone to reward me for enduring their punishments again…….EVER!
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